Somebody once said that the day you were born isn’t the most important.The most important day is the day you discover why you were born. Most of just go through life’s motions without care about ourselves or others around us.
Happiness is a very elusive factor in any human beings life. I have realized that the moment you start experiencing some happiness something always comes up and fucks everything up(excuse my French😂😂).
I have however found out that satisfaction and happiness is elusive because we look for it at all the wrong places. Some try becoming rich,others try relationships. Heck, others prefer being alone. Small things that we say and do make us happy or those people around us.
Try brightening up the day of somebody you care about. You never know how much you can bring more happiness in their lives. Some of the ways to make a person’s day are:
Maybe it is the hairstyle, clothing or some achievement that another person has just accomplished. Men!! Learn to say cute things to your missus. You never know how much the ladies need these compliments. Trust me,if your lady is having a bad day all it takes is to tell her ‘You’re beautiful’ and you might just make their days. Ladies!! Men also like being told nice things once in a while; though don’t tell them nice things all the time😂😂😂. It is important to mean it from your heart though.
Believe me,forgiving someone is easy. The problem lies with forgetting the wrong they did to you. Having bitterness in your heart weighs down on your happiness and wears you down gradually.
For somebody you love; maybe boyfriend, girlfriend, sibling or friend, learn to forgive them for their transgressions as you would expect them to forgive you when you wrong them
For Christ’s sake find laughter in your life. Surround yourself with happy souls. People who lift up your moods when you feeling down. Crack jokes frequently with your close pals,relive the funny moments you had with them too. Avoid people who suck the fun out of everything.
4. Work hard Play hard
Do your best in your studies, at your work place then don’t forget to have fun after a busy day or week. Imbibe your favorite drink😉😉,go out with your squad to have fun,dance,go swimming.. anything fun to forget about your daily struggles. However, don’t overindulge.
As a student it is quite hard to find joy in school because why lie, school sucks big time but it is the experiences with the people I care about that gives me something to smile about.
Live, laugh and love!!