Apologies

Ever been in argument with somebody and it got very intense,you are shouting, they are shouting,you are both talking over each other then suddenly one of you says the words.. “I’m sorry”. The argument ends abruptly even though you both had so much more to say?

That’s the power of the words ” I’m sorry “. Owning up on your mistakes is one of the best ways that shows your maturity. Sometimes you might not even be wrong but apologizing deflates egos that would otherwise destroy existing good relations.

In relationships apologizing is one of the ways of ensuring a long and healthy period of companionship. Most of the times it’s we men who end saying we’re sorry, that’s the bitter truth. It’s not that we are always wrong (well in the female brain we always are),it’s about looking at the bigger picture. Arguments always ruin the moment. Sometimes men luck the strength to argue all the time,perhaps it’s the loud voice we also luck πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. But it’s mostly about the bigger picture and letting your missus take these small victories.

I’ve learned the hard way that sometimes bad situations can be avoided by saying sorry. The burden of one feeling guilty is also lifted from one’s shoulders.

Arguing with parents can be like finding your way through a minefile,one wrong word and you risk angering your folks. It is easier to listen to their side of the story and just apologize to limit the explosiveness of the situation. Besides parents are always right,right?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

All in all, be a bigger person than you currently are and just say the words..”I’m sorry”

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